The pride of a lover

 "Its better to lose your pride for someone you love rather than lose that someone you love with your useless pride"...Anonymous

 I guess you never really know how much value or worth a lover is until they are lost forever. If you are in the kind of relationship were all you do is argue over nothing and everything every time plus sorry seems to the hardest word, then this shouldn’t surprise you when I say that either you or your lover has pride issues. A person ruled by pride is only validated when others agree with their point of view. The bible points out in proverbs 18:12 that “Before his downfall a man’s heart is proud” it begins by humbling yourself and accepting that sometimes you’re wrong {we all make mistakes].even the greatest men and woman have all made mistakes. They learnt from their mistakes and experiences thus they made history.{With humility comes wisdom]. Be grateful and thankful you have someone that’s got your back [ your partner]. Instead of fighting, focus more on the good things and achieve even greater things together. Acknowledge each other’s contributions.  Be the ears and be the shoulder to lean on. With your hands, hold the heart as if it were yours. Be the back they climb on when he/she can’t stand, be the friend and the lover. A relationship isn’t one person’s work. So pride lover get off your high horse and be the best lover you can be.

"Its sad to see how many people are so full of themselves that i dont think they'll ever realize how empty they really are"... Drake