Dear Posh bloggers
The strongest relationships require lots of hard work. It has to be a joint effort of two. You can't tend to your relationship, alone; your partner has to be down too. without intentionally nurturing relationships, it’s easy to become strangers, for relationships to wither and become vulnerable. In relationship you both listen with empathy and respect to another person’s perspective and experience –without judgment, defensiveness or blame. In a situation where there is no trust, lack of respect, you barely have time for each other, have incompatible goals such as wanting to get married or not, are stuck in a rut or bicker all the time, your relationship may be in deep trouble. To make it work you both have to be open to learning, and should both have a desire for the relationship to succeed. Build on the ability to deal with differences and problems in ways that often lead to greater closeness, understanding, acceptance and commitment. Stop with the procrastinations because sustaining the feelings of love in a relationship requires learning what it takes in today’s circumstances to stay pleasurable in each other’s lives. Like I said relationships requires hard work and team effort.
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