Mending and bonding

It’s a couple of hours to the start of a brand new year ,we all have made mistakes, we crossed the line at some point and we called it ‘’wrong’’ but have you admitted being wrong? Did you apologized like u meant it? Did you say sorry like you could imagine he or she had a point? If you haven’t, please do. You owe it to yourself. Today is another fantastic opportunity to bond and apologise to those you have wronged.  Spending the day with your loved ones has the potential to solidify your bond. What ways can we bond?

Cooking is a bonding weapon in relationships,especially this season with the family members all gather together. family members can contribute both their skills and any resources to help turn it into a feast. By cooking together, work can be delegate.You assign each person to be responsible for a different task, recipe, or course. It’s so much fun

Decision making is made together so as to move forward in every relationship. This season is a time to reminisce together over the past year and make decisions that are needed. Together finding solutions is made much easier.

Another way of bonding is by playing board games. Set up a major board games night along with lots of delicious nibbles and drinks. Have games suited to all ages so that everyone can join in the fun. It helps to assign a coordinator for such an event and You throw in prizes to make it more fun

During this season a lot of families meet at a certain point called a Family Home. You could also introduce Playing physical games such as foosball, volley ball, Wii sports, ping pong or table tennis etc. By doing this everyone is able to participate.

Bonding while watching movies together or even creating something like a concert or a Broadway show in the living room is all you need. Choosing really good DVD material to watch, gets everyone off the usual pulp on TV on New Year's Eve and provides a focal point for the whole family to sit down together and watch through an entire show. Supply nibbles and drinks as usual, and provide distractions for the little ones.
There is a saying that goes >A family that prays together stays together. Spiritually way of bonding.

Finally make these moments last for a life time by doing videos or taking pictures. It will not only serve as a New Year's keepsake, but you can look back on them together the following year to see how much you have changed.

The Resolutions, The Change

Dear Posh Bloggers,

New year Resolutions are those promises we make. This year alone a lot of resolutions were made and some were broken. Some were kept and some were just lines we told ourselves. Christmas resolutions give us the perfect way to reflect upon the changes we want to go for. These resolutions help us grow and they make us want to be better. Some of us say we want to be better lovers and partners and do nothing about it. Resolutions are about change and change starts from being aware that something has to be different. Change can be hard, taking a small step can truly lead to greater years ahead.

Though you don't have the right to change your partner, the way you act will have an impact on the way your mate reacts. At any given moment, you have the power to change the way things are going in your relationship. Do something simple things like showing appreciation and support. The message you're sending should read “You matter to me”

Life is really like a gamble,we flip a coin and take a toss Quite often, New Year resolutions are broken not because they want to but the strong urge and determination to do something new unfortunately do not last for the whole year. Hopeful all our resolutions will be made and not broken next year,Hopefully!
                                              HAVE NEWYEAR IN ADVANCE

Prefect Excuse

Dear PBs

Ever wonder what happens when sorry is the hardest thing to say, even though it may not be enough. You rather have everything you have built go down flames than to say sorry when you’re wrong. Relationships work better when you learn to admit and correct yourself. Often times I wonder if it’s the FEAR of appearing weak to your partner. Pride and the difficulty to say sorry are two relevant concepts that make people avoid stepping up and making amends. Its Christmas season,a prefect excuse and a period in time that creates a platform for new beginnings.. .learn from your mistakes and make it work. 

                                                                         

                                                      Have a memorable Christmas Every one

Relating with the King of Kings

Dear Posh bloggers,

It’s the last Sunday of the year 2013. Let’s use today to thank God for His wonderful work in our life all year long. Some will say what’s so great about the year if am not yet married and I keep making bad investments. Even those who find it a struggle to move on can thank Him by faith for a turn around. Don’t you think it’s time you stop feeling sorry for yourself and complaining? Turn off those water works and tell God how you really feel today. Drop all those bad habits this year so next year you are all brand new. You want change you got to fight it. You want love, look in the right places. Focus on God and I guarantee you, He will never fail. No act of God shouls ever be considered insignificant.

Thanksgiving is a product from the heart and You must be Thankful everyday.  Thanksgiving is a way to perfect God’s blessings in your life and it’s a platform for answered prayers. What God gives you at first is not His best, it’s just a test. We fall to rise again. As you celebrate God, he changes your level. Let’s stop being ignorant and thinking we can do all without God.  If you have lost anything thank God that you haven’t lost everything because without him your nothing.

Done with the Ex,no more sex.

Dear Posh bloggers,
A New year is 3days away and its time to start making those new year resolutions.
Someone once said, Sex is supposed to be that moment in time when everything in the world disappears and it's just you and your partner, delving into a blissful utopia that is unmatched by anything else, and I agree. My best friend recently hooked up with her ex and had hot passionate sex repeatedly for months without end. They knew it was just physical but so many times they tried to make it more than it was. I think sex with the ex is best avoided. So big and yet so small is this world and there is every chance that you might bump into an ex. In cases were people meet the ex[not yet forgotten] at a party ,there is a chance they might just end up in bed and  after the moaning and groaning,Some regret it and some think it’s a chance to start again,while others tell themselves that it’s just sex and a one night. After sex, we blame it on some random cocktail of chemicals that our brains released but it's only a matter of time until she develops feelings again if sex is repeated after that one night. If it’s going to be about sex, it should be stated. The highest a woman will say is No but the thought will linger. [Laying the ground rules] When you tell your ex that you are only interested in a purely sexual relationship, she might pretend to agree [we are great actors].If giving the slightest hope that there is a change of more than sex, we secretly start to manipulate because we can. so If it’s purely sex don’t get all chatty about old times in bed or making those whiny phone calls that say i care. If you want to be part of something great {A RELATIONSHIP} then you have to work at it. You can’t start by having sex with you ex. Relationship brings about productive in the sense that, if you’re in a form of relationship where is all about sex and nothing else then ask yourself  now what you’re doing there. Some of the disadvantages of been in a sex only relationship can be sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies and fatherhood that you clearly not prepared for and above all a chance to meet someone else. Time is the best healer when it comes to the ex.