untell the tales

The games we play...cat and mouse, No Sex scene on the 1st date, if he calls dnt pick till the 3rd ring. In a lot of cases, it's the game called "Play Pretend " dat tops the chat. We all pretendin to be some 1 were not. What happens wen he or she wants to get serious. Do we untell the tales. Is pretend and lies the way forward in the dating World? How do we correct it?