Treading softly on the 1st date

It’s you first date in while and you want to do things right this time. Many times we don’t really know the kind of questions to ask when we are out on a date.  Try not to be tensed,jumpy or on the edge because while you’re on a date “it’s about what you like and not what you are like that matters."  It’s not about your background or drama, it’s about getting to know each other. While on a date you can talk about things like movies, music, politics, books, food, and all manners of consumable subjects. You can get the conversation going with all this and more, and even stumble on things you both have in common. Its advisable to Tread on the surface first ,be friends before  trying to be great lovers, try not to get to intimate on a first date although some people zing on the first date and end up for a life time.

To drive the silence while on a date, try the questions below.

1. What do you do? (Work and for fun)

2. This food is missing a touch of Maggi, I know this because I love to cook. What about you?

3. I Love sports, which ones are you into?

3. Who has been the biggest influence in your life?

4. What kinds of things really make you laugh?

3. What’s your favourite place in the entire world?

4. Who is your best friend? What do you like about him/her?

5. Favourite movie of all time? Why so?

6. What’s your biggest goal in life?

7. What is your favourite way to spend a Saturday?

8. Do you have any pets?

9. Did you—or do you—have a nickname? What’s the story behind it? Why?

10.For a hint about where you should take her on your second date,ask her where she likes to go on weekends, what activities she prefers, and if she's a social butterfly or a lone ranger.