The illusion

Playing the coquette …It’s a cat and mouse game. It starts off with the illusions of one seeming interested and then taking two steps backwards of disapproval. Its the art of offering little hope for the present and creating an illusion of an exciting future. He does the chase while she plays 007, the mission impossible (long thing).
 She offers the ultimate temptation by enticing and then frustrating him. It becomes really frustrating when misunderstood and ignored. A coquette casts out every thought that says she can change or reform a man and she never lets her guard down because it might turn out to be her down fall. A coquette knows that even if a woman feels in her heart a fiery passion for a man, she must hold that passion in - with a leash of exemplary patience! For a real captivator of men knows instinctively that an easy victory produces a fickle victor.
A coquette specializes in flirting or coquetry; Coquetry is seduction that appears to defy logic yet I am convinced at the effectiveness over the years. conquetry usually involves speaking and behaving in a way that suggests an interest in a deeper relationship with the other person. in most cases flirting is done for fun. shes backed up with power of mind that says, she can she get whatever she desires.

We see what we want to see some times...Not all women engage in the coquette powers, some haven’t even discovered or established their powers because of they are busying worry about there physical appearance and doing nothing about it. So guys, if shes taking steps back don't push her, create space. This seduction may last long. Keep it simple. It could be a thousand things, it could even be because of some fears or insecurity, doubts and past experiences.
To win the heart of a coquette, you must wait and wait patiently till she comes to you. Don't intimidate her. Move slowly. Advance very slowly and if she doesn't response well, take a step back as well but not for too long because giving a woman too much space you risk losing her altogether. There's still something like being a man and taking the lead, Making her feel freedom, because slippery/elusive people (like the coquette) sometimes just are not sure of what action to do. Pressure will kill attraction. If she takes the steps towards you, it's more solid & consistent. She has to invest. I guess the best action is letting HER come close to you. I mean, if she doesn't come to a date and makes up excuses why, go on talking with her, and try to make HER take the next step. If after all said and done,she rejects you, it's not your fault. She is free and we respect it. And love is a two way thing. If shes really in to you She has to put in her half and take steps to make it work.