oiling the wheels

While we may work hard to get a relationship started and on the right track, we expect to cruise to the very end without hiccups and thats why we fail to maintain the relationship. Maintance helps avoid internal injuries if there be a stall or crash in the relationship. If you want a long lasting relationship you need to maintain the wheels of love during the ride.

During the course of a relationship,You might get lost in work load and fail to oil the wheels of love in your relationship. You forget to do the little things that keep the relationship satisfying. 

 Oiling the wheels through #communication and openness# some couples talk but don’t necessarily open up about their feelings. So it’s important that we are open in our relationship.

#keeping it interesting# nothing good comes easy. To achieve a certain result you have tread the path. Keeping it fun and interesting oils the wheels of any relationship. It keeps you at the edge.

#So Cliché# It’s become sort of a norm in some cases to go to bed mad at you partner, which shouldn’t be. It starts off as a joke or some attention seeking thing and after a while it stops being a priority to talk anymore. Making up takes longer now, especially when both parties don’t want to comprise and apologize. There is need to create a way to finish arguments for good and avoid bringing it up over and over again.

#Continue blending# We need to comprise and find different ways to make it work till we are sure its definitely over and nothing else can be done.