its all about christmas

Christmas is all about Christ. It’s a time to be thankful for all His done throughout the year. A time to celebrate, to love and to share. A time to rejoice that Christ was born. It’s around this time we start to reflect and make those new year resolutions that sometimes never happen. There are many ways to celebrate Christmas. People in different countries blend their cultural traditions with more universal Christmas celebrations. It is common for many households to have decorated Christmas trees, either real or fake [it doesn’t matter]. Many homes are also decorated to fit the Christmas theme prior to. Presents are placed under the Christmas tree and are opened on boxing the day

Christmas is an exclusive family affair that sees relatives travel from different geographic regions to unite at this time of the year. Other people may choose to openly invite friends to a Christmas lunch or dinner. Many churches also have special Christmas Day services, some of which include choirs and eating after the church services. 

Images of Santa Claus, also known as father Christmas, snowman, reindeer, and candy canes are seen in cards,posters, signs and other printed materials associated with Christmas celebrations. The images listed above where put in place to make the season more interesting.

Christmas is all about Christ. MERRY CHRISTMAS !

Good relationships

  Good relationships affect all aspects of your life as well as how you connection with others. However, if the relationship isn't working, it can also be a tremendous drain. Relationships are an investment. The more you put in, the more you can get back. 

  Its important to Stay involved with each other because some relationships get stuck in peaceful coexistence. They stay{coexist} because of fear ,history and the thought of starting over again. They coexist without truly relating to each other and working together. While it may seem stable on the surface, lack of involvement and communication increases distance.

  Everyone’s relationship is unique, and people come together for many different reasons. But there are some things that good relationships have in common. Knowing the basic principles of healthy relationships helps keep them meaningful, fulfilling and exciting in both happy times and sad:

I love the runway

We complain that we not getting the right people to approach us and start a conversation. The kind of conversation that feels like, you have known each other forever. When picking out an outfit you need to consider things like…The kind of people you’re trying to attract, location, timing and style. Nothing works like pulling out a great outfit that you comfortable in. Looking good builds your confidence, that way you can walk up to someone you like and express yourself.

The runway… It’s in lights, it’s the thoughts behind it, it’s on a stage, and it’s in the applause. The different designs are simple forms of expression, a beautiful work of art showing talent value and culture. The artist pulls out ideas from nature, love (inspiring) and life. An artist pours out her heart to the art. It starts off with the stroke of pencil, the creativity inside, the urge to want to prefect. With every stitch made out of the finest wool comes an amazing fabric. On the runway you get to see these amazing fabrics come together as different styles. What goes on at the backstage? You should know that the backstage is the heart of the runway… Paying attention to every detail is key. So when next you’re going out on a date remember the thought behind the dress.

 visit www.musicmeetsrunway.com for more topics on the runway

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                                                                                    MERRY CHRISTMAS !

Bonding this christmas

I Talk about about relationships and I look for new ways to help us bond with our loved ones.
I thought it would be a good idea if I shared some tips of my favourite cookies and smoothie.Enjoy!

Peanut Butter Toffee Cookies

Ingredients

• 3/4 cup all-purpose flour (spooned and leveled), plus more for fingertips
• 1/4 teaspoon baking soda
• 1/8 teaspoon salt
• 4 tablespoons unsalted butter, room temperature
• 1/2 cup sugar
• 1/2 cup smooth peanut butter
• 1 large egg
• 2 chocolate-covered toffe candy bars (1.4 ounces each), chopped

Directions

1. Step 1: Preheat oven to 350. In a medium bowl, whisk together flour, baking soda, and salt.

2. Step 2: In a large bowl, with an electric mixer on high speed, beat butter and sugar until light and fluffy. Add peanut butter and egg; beat until smooth. With mixer on low, gradually add flour mixture. Stir in toffe.

3. Step 3: Using 1 level tablespoon batter per cookie, drop onto baking sheets, about 1 inch apart; flatten slightly with floured fingertips. Bake until edges are golden brown, 16 to 18 minutes, rotating sheets halfway through. Transfer cookies immediately to a wire rack to cool completely. 

    #If there is extra peanut butter, you could make a peanut butter banana smoothie.   

                         Banana                                                   1/8 cup peanut butter         
     1/2 cup milk or yogurt                    2 tablespoons of honey                                      Ice Cubes                                                                  

   STEPS
   #Take out your blender and add the ingredients.
   #Add ice cubes and blend ingredients until smooth. Then #Garnish your smoothie. Loose berries, a wheel of lemon or lime, Grinded nuts or flat-leaf parsley can add a fun touch to the final beverage. If you're feeling tropical, add a little umbrella. Merry Christmas!

CHRISTMAS POST

Relating and bonding with the kids

SHARE FUN TIMES WITHN THE KIDS.  MERRY CHRISTMAS! 

PRINT OUT AND START COLOURING.

A poem to Mandela

A life well lived,not for one but for all.
He lived though a struggle,
All days and some nights long.
I do believe that there must have been moments during the struggle,
When he thought he couldn't do it anymore.
He saw hope when there was none and just kept moving on.
He stands out as an example of how one person can make a difference in the world,
A world sometimes lonely and cold.
He came out to seek change and got it.
He will live in our hearts forever and never be forgotten.
                                                                                          NELSON MANDELA

Dear PBS, 
This Christmas,
I wish nothing but the abundance of gifts
And love for you and your family.
Take this holiday as a chance for you to reflect
On the blessings you have received.
I hope that you enjoy the holiday season
And that you not forget to celebrate the birth of our Lord.
Because his the reason.
Merry Christmas!

Men lie, women lie, everyone lies.

The truth dressed in salad... How many of us tell the truth..the little white lie is what it is ...A LIE! don't sugar coat it.  the truth will set u free but lies will leave u hanging and keep you lieing. once you start a lie you have to keep lieing because nothing else will fit.
 Men lie, women lie, everyone lies . The question is why? Some people can win arguments and influence people just by emphasizing the right points — without really lying.
 A guy can tell a lie because he might be looking for an easy way out to keep you[woman] shut before you make a big deal out of nothing. Sometimes people justify themselves by saying that they only embellished the truth in a lie. On the other hand, she may lie outright in order to control the way you think or feel. If she tells white lies to win arguments or to twist you around her finger, you should watch out, because manipulation is a powerful tool.
 Guys lie because they think women don't want to hear the truth while Women need to know that they can say what's on their minds without worrying that men are going to judge them, become defensive, get mad or impatient, or generally not be willing to listen. So for starters, you[man] can help her feel more comfortable about opening up to you.
 Women are very concerned about men's egos and think that if they are honest, they will turn a man off and the whole mood will be ruined. When women fake orgasms it's dishonest and will not help men learn about their partner and what does and doesn't please her. We ladies need to get over our fear of making our needs known.
Its very common on first dates to tell lies because everyone tries to make a good impression on the first date. I know that after reading my blog you probably will tell another lie. Its in our DNA and you not prefect, so try to avoid lieing about senstive issues.

Faking an Orgasm

Dear Posh bloggers,
   People fake all sorts of things all the time. we all know that woman fake orgasms almost all the time but what you may not know is that men too can fake it.
Why do the few men who fake orgasms,fake it?  Men care more about the ability to be good lovers for their partners then they do about thier own satisfaction.
THE IMAGE... Well while it's okay for a woman to say she's too tired to make love, or has a headache, it's not acceptable for men. 'The image is that men are always up for sex, which makes you feel under pressure to preform even when you don't want to. It's  simply a taboo for men to admit when they aren't in the mood for intimacy.
  Often times I have wondered if  he could be faking it because having sex with their partner has become over comfortable ,its having familiar rhythm and the attration has started to decline.
  He might just need sleep. In fact, he must sleep after a hard days work. As he rapidly ages,other things become more important, like how to provide and make money to make you comfortable. He may be so tried that if you offered him the choice between the hottest sex and sleep. he would pick sleeping.
  Men aren't supposed to be the fakers. The idea, widely disseminated and accepted, is that men are the ones generally trying to prolong the time it takes to ejaculate. Some say its simply faked because they have lost interested while inside.
THE TRUTH is, if a woman doesn't come, the man's no good in bed. If a man doesn't come, it hardly seems like sex was had at all, which, when you think about it, is pretty unfair to both genders. Women feel like they have to bring a man to the finish line. Most women don't notice so long as the man makes a sufficiently convincing display of passion.
  Medically, it could be due to stress,low testosterone,depression or a side effect of a drug therefore leading to difficulty in  climaxing. Men who note decreased or absent sexual desire should check in with their doctor.
And finally, may be it could be a language problem. simply don't have an unloaded way of ceasing the thrusting and saying, "It ain't going to happen."because am really

First date part 2

LADIES especially
 #A woman’s voice is naturally higher pitched than a man’s, but irrespective of the gender, don’t be loud or brash. Speak softly and clearly in a relaxed manner without mumbling. The softer you speak, the calmer and more relaxed your date will feel. And a pleasantly soft voice will make you appear romantic and caring too.
 #Many women are fond of hogging a conversation. try not to interrupt or speak at length about the same topic unless your date adds their point of view about the same topic frequently. Keep your sentences short, so your date gets to respond or add their own point of view.
 #try to live in the Now. If you and this guy clicked when you met, it's tempting to leap into the future mentally — could he be The One? Stop right there and rein in your expectations or you won't have fun."If you place too much importance on the encounter, you'll spend the whole evening evaluating how it's going and stressing about whether you'll see him again,"This prevents you from fully experiencing what's happening in the present."

First date 1

Dear Poshbloggers,

Do your best work by challenging the way you did things yesterday. - See more at: http://www.robinsharma.com/blog/02/do-your-best-work/#sthash.AsxJws9e.dpuf

How do i become my best at work?First become part of the solution instead of creating more problems. next step is to challeng yourself. Even if you find yourself in a job that wasnt on the plan A after graduation make a plan B, pratice new skills and be virtuoso. remember no knowledege goes to waste. Finally,delive more value than anyone could ever except from you. become an inspirations to others.

Do your best work by challenging the way you did things yesterday. - See more at: http://www.robinsharma.com/blog/02/do-your-best-work/#sthash.AsxJws9e.dpuf

How do i become my best at work?First become part of the solution instead of creating more problems. next step is to challeng yourself. Even if you find yourself in a job that wasnt on the plan A after graduation make a plan B, pratice new skills and be virtuoso. remember no knowledege goes to waste. Finally,delive more value than anyone could ever except from you. become an inspirations to others.

One of the most interesting conversations I had on a first date was about Art,wood and creepy animals. at first I thought it was disgusting but as the conversation continued i began to understand why my date thought it was fascinating. Our conversation was extremely interesting, and showed us that we can talk about different opinions on our first date.
You would agree with me that some people always seem to fail miserably at making a great first impression no matter how hard they try. First dates,no matter how many times we do it,we are still nervous. Impressing a date takes more than just words.The way you behave and treat the person you’re with on a date can play a big part too.
                                                                              
GUYS especially
 #When planing a first date try Picking a date spot that both of you would like and make sure you arrive on time. there is tendecy to goof up or slip because there is alot of pressure to impress. after the slip just simply laugh it off and rise again.
 #Generous with compliments.Impress her with your attention to detail if you ask her about her clothes (which she likely took an hour to pick out).And Unless your date leans in or tries to get closer to you, avoid reaching out and touching them unnecessarily.
 #Be positive when you meet your date and use positive words during the date. Look around the restaurant and tell your date what you like about the place, or tell your date how glad you are to spend time with them. When you see the positive side in everything around you, your optimism will make you seem more attractive.


WHILE TALKING
It's all about letting the conversation flow natturally and you just might have the most memorable Story.
#Gestures are a great way to show your excitement in a conversation. dont assume you’re having an interesting conversation but your date may feel otherwise. If your date seems to be looking around the room, shuffling their feet, staring blankly at you or in any way distracted, talk about something else, or wrap your statement up quickly and discreetly, laugh awkwardly and use the time tested line, “I’m talking too much… why don’t you tell me something.
#Disagree respectfully. In every conversation, there are bound to be differences in opinions.  Express your view lightheartedly and try to steer the conversation in another direction if its giving the code red.
#I think its best that during the conversation you should avoid asking about their past relationships or their future plans. Both of you aren’t dating yet.
#When a person reveals too much too soon, it can give a false sense of intimacy.Getting to know someone new is like peeling an onion one thin layer at the time. It’s a slow and safe process. But some people, overeager to get into deep and meaningful conversation, go too far too fast. They ask personal or sensitive questions that put the other person on the defensive. Should the relationship evolve, there will be plenty of time to get into weighty topics. For now, take it easy
#End the date memorably is just as important as the first few minutes of the day. leave your date thinking fondly of you.

1. Do your best work by challenging the way you did things yesterday.
2. Do your best work by allowing your passion to see the light of day.
3. Do your best work by becoming part of the solution versus growing the problem.
4. Do your best work by expecting nothing less than you playing at world-class.
5. Do your best work by giving away the credit (especially when you crave it)
6. Do your best work by practicing your skills so you become a virtuoso.
7. Do your best work by releasing excuses and doing important things.
8. Do your best work by getting up when you’ve been knocked down.
9. Do your best work by keeping your promises; to others and to yourself.
10. Do your best work by showing integrity.
11. Do your best work by delivering more value than anyone could ever expect from you.
12. Do your best work by making time to refill your well.
13. Do your best work by having a strong foundation at home.
14. Do your best work by becoming as fit as a pro athlete.
15. Do your best work by doing work that makes a difference and inspires others to do the same.

As Chuck Palahniuk once said: “The goal isn’t to live forever. The goal is to create something that will.”
- See more at: http://www.robinsharma.com/blog/02/do-your-best-work/#sthash.AsxJws9e.dpuf

1. Do your best work by challenging the way you did things yesterday.
2. Do your best work by allowing your passion to see the light of day.
3. Do your best work by becoming part of the solution versus growing the problem.
4. Do your best work by expecting nothing less than you playing at world-class.
5. Do your best work by giving away the credit (especially when you crave it)
6. Do your best work by practicing your skills so you become a virtuoso.
7. Do your best work by releasing excuses and doing important things.
8. Do your best work by getting up when you’ve been knocked down.
9. Do your best work by keeping your promises; to others and to yourself.
10. Do your best work by showing integrity.
11. Do your best work by delivering more value than anyone could ever expect from you.
12. Do your best work by making time to refill your well.
13. Do your best work by having a strong foundation at home.
14. Do your best work by becoming as fit as a pro athlete.
15. Do your best work by doing work that makes a difference and inspires others to do the same.

As Chuck Palahniuk once said: “The goal isn’t to live forever. The goal is to create something that will.”
- See more at: http://www.robinsharma.com/blog/02/do-your-best-work/#sthash.AsxJws9e.dpuf

1. Do your best work by challenging the way you did things yesterday.
2. Do your best work by allowing your passion to see the light of day.
3. Do your best work by becoming part of the solution versus growing the problem.
4. Do your best work by expecting nothing less than you playing at world-class.
5. Do your best work by giving away the credit (especially when you crave it)
6. Do your best work by practicing your skills so you become a virtuoso.
7. Do your best work by releasing excuses and doing important things.
8. Do your best work by getting up when you’ve been knocked down.
9. Do your best work by keeping your promises; to others and to yourself.
10. Do your best work by showing integrity.
11. Do your best work by delivering more value than anyone could ever expect from you.
12. Do your best work by making time to refill your well.
13. Do your best work by having a strong foundation at home.
14. Do your best work by becoming as fit as a pro athlete.
15. Do your best work by doing work that makes a difference and inspires others to do the same.

As Chuck Palahniuk once said: “The goal isn’t to live forever. The goal is to create something that will.”
- See more at: http://www.robinsharma.com/blog/02/do-your-best-work/#sthash.AsxJws9e.dpufHow do i become the best at work?First be part of the solution and not the problem, next is to chanllege yourself , Yes plan A didnt work, life sucks..stop beating youself and make a plan B and that dont work either make a plan CDEFGHIJ till you get to Z. If that dont work move to numbers. I always tell my students "You fall to rise again". Pratice new skills and what ever you involved in try to improve yourself. No knowledge is wasted. Finally show intergrity and deliver more value than anyone could ever have expect. Be the best because you love you.

1. Do your best work by challenging the way you did things yesterday.
2. Do your best work by allowing your passion to see the light of day.
3. Do your best work by becoming part of the solution versus growing the problem.
4. Do your best work by expecting nothing less than you playing at world-class.
5. Do your best work by giving away the credit (especially when you crave it)
6. Do your best work by practicing your skills so you become a virtuoso.
7. Do your best work by releasing excuses and doing important things.
8. Do your best work by getting up when you’ve been knocked down.
9. Do your best work by keeping your promises; to others and to yourself.
10. Do your best work by showing integrity.
11. Do your best work by delivering more value than anyone could ever expect from you.
12. Do your best work by making time to refill your well.
13. Do your best work by having a strong foundation at home.
14. Do your best work by becoming as fit as a pro athlete.
15. Do your best work by doing work that makes a difference and inspires others to do the same.

As Chuck Palahniuk once said: “The goal isn’t to live forever. The goal is to create something that will.”
- See more at: http://www.robinsharma.com/blog/02/do-your-best-work/#sthash.AsxJws9e.dpuf