when is the right time to have sex?some people say the first date so as to get pass that thought of what it would be like ...I say, the slower the better....
The main point of contention in the debate over when you should get intimate in a relationship generally boils down to whether it’s better to find out if you are sexually “compatible” as early as possible, or whether holding off on sex might uniquely strengthen the relationship.
 Why take it slow?take a second and imagine a movie that just started with little or no introduction of the cast and seconds later it says the end with a scene of a man and woman who bumped into each other and kissed. it makes no meaning right?
 my point is, its harder to fit into the narrative of your relationship when there isnt much to the story of how you became a couple.no meaning,confusion,no history or any idea what lead to that very moment, in this case the kiss. so my dear poshbloggers, make your story one to be heard and a relationship to be desire.