Accepting Your Partner

Dear posh bloggers,
 Accepting your partner for who they are is very important. be aware of what you and your partner want from the relationship before going deep into it. while having the talk, be willing to negotiate and compromise on the things you want from one another. Now, it's very important that you keep in mind that your partner might not be able to meet all your needs.
please do not demand that your partner change to meet all your expectations, work on accepting and telling the difference between your ideal mate and the real person you are dating. 
 Acceptance is acknowledging reality as it is. To accept another means letting go of shoulds, expectations and judgments. Try and see things from the other persons point of view. Note that this doesn't mean that you must agree with one another all the time but rather that both of you can understand and respect each others differences and points of views.