Taking back the Keys to Your Heart.

Too touchy and No balls, bad mix!..Some girls are just too touchy and some guys might not have the balls to breakup, so these type of guys will just allow the girl firgure it out on her own. The ones that are nice will leave clear signs.
To some men this is the best way out. why? may be you have been too nice( too much of anything is bad)and again, they can go back for pity sex if need be... thats when you hear lines like " I didnt break up with you, you did" and with that little sign of hope, she gives it up. The yoruba's say "once debe always debe".
ITS OVER! You dont  need BILLBOARD.
 Don't beg. He broke up with you. He's already made up his mind. No matter how shocked, panicked, and in pain you are, don't beg him for another chance. It's very hard to do, but try hard not to cry too much - of course, it may be impossible not to cry. But crying a little, then saying, "I'm so sad about this, but if that's your decision, I have no choice but to accept it," is much more dignified than screaming, "No, don't leave me! I'll do anything you want me to!!"

Gather your supporters. Now is the time you need your friends and family. They will hopefully come flying to your side to comfort and keep you company while you nurse your broken heart back to health. Don't try to go it alone , its too heavy.

Recognize when it's no use trying to talk to him any more. He may keep calling you, trying to let you down easy, saying he still cares about you, or many other things. But he still won't commit himself fully to you, doesn't really want to be your boyfriend any more, etc. Let him go, girl. It's no use. His attempts to communicate with you after the fact are not about lingering feelings he has for you - it's all about him. He's trying to not be seen as a bad guy, but the reality is, he's done with your relationship and moving on.

Never let her see you sweat. Once the big breakup is over with, don't keep on letting her get to you. Even if you don't feel like it, go get dressed up and go out with your friends. You don't have to get drunk, or misbehave.. just to go and hang with pals and have great time.Try to avoid going to places where you will be likely to run into each other. If you do see her while you're out, just smile and nod. its not war.

Review the relationship. There's a good chance that now that he or she gone, you can look back and realize there may have been warning signs about this guy. Reviewing the relationship and recognizing where the problems began can be valuable in later relationships - they can clue you in to danger signals in new men, or let you have a chance to adjust your own behaviors, if you really believe you had some fault.
                                                                                                   Goodluck posh blogger..



NB;When you notice the change, Your guts says its over but You pretend,assume and drag on. having the talk(communicating) might have helped in the beginning but waiting till the end..thats crashing. keep in mind that when the human mind, just let it go.