I think shes cheating

Dear posh blogger,

 Don't delude yourself into thinking that your woman would never CHEAT and don't rush to judgment either; if she is guilty of committing any signs on the list below perhaps it's indicative that something is awry in the relationship. More importantly, don't let what may just be a bad case of JEALOUSY taint your perception of her. Reading her the wrong way or jumping to conclusions can permanently sever a relationship; get all the facts before you confront her. 

"We" becomes " I": One of the biggest signs she's cheating on you is her breaking away from your little two-person unit to become more autonomous. She has dropped "we" from her vocabulary in favor of "I." Moreover, she does more things on her own and stops consulting you about future plans. In short, she conducts herself in ways that hint that she no longer needs you to hold her hand.  

She has no interest in sex with you: When your relationship was new, the two of your were full of passion and open to spontaneous lovemaking. Now it's all a bit sketchy. On a slightly more ego-bashing note, she may suddenly become bored by your performance and appear to be thinking about someone else when you do make love. Cheating may be wrong, but you can't deny that unlawful sex is usually more exhilarating. So, if you can no longer satisfy her sexually, someone else may be rubbing her the right way.

You become irrelevant:  You ask what could be worse than a girlfriend who nags you about absolutely everything? How about one who stops noticing that you're even alive? All at once, she doesn't care if you don't want to go to the movies with her; she'll just find somebody else with whom to go. And whatever opinion you may have, be it about how she looks or how you're feeling, is met with a tepid response. In other words, she doesn't place the same importance on what you think  and what you do as she once did, especially on things that directly affect the relationship

she has a mysterious friend : A telltale sign that your woman is cheating arises when a mysterious friend inches his or her way into the picture. Whether it's someone she claims is a coworker or an old friend from way back, she keeps this friendship under wraps and is hesitant to share any general details about him, much less introduce you.  keep in mind that she could also have a mysterious girl friend who is giving her bad advise. bad advise most times is taking out of what you said or did. so be careful ,treat you woman right and fill those gaps.

She avoids simple questions:  You should be suspicious of your girl friend when she refuses to answer the simplest and fairest of questions or answers questions only after repeating them back to you, which usually indicates a mind that's searching for a lie. Be wary of times when ,rather than reveal whats been up with her, If she gets defensive about disclosing information that she used to volunteer without hesitation, she may be hiding something or someone and it's one of the surest things shes cheating on you. 


 Major outbrust for no reason: Gone are the days when the two of you could communicate with harmonious precision. Now,every sentiment you express sets her off and she finds any excuse to lash out at you.

 she shifts priorities away from you: If she is involved in a hot and heavy romance with someone else, you'll definitely feel a shift in her daily priorities. suddenly, there are no more implied dates at the movies or something always comes up when you need her. Why the change?well may be shes getting the vibe that says your not making her a priority so therefore she has no reason to make you one. It could also be may be you are not satisfying her. But whatever the case, talk to her and let her open up.