Great Communication

Dear posh bloggers,
What is communication?According to the wikipedia. Communication is gotten from the Latin word commūnicāre, meaning "to share" it is the activity of conveying information through the exchange of thoughts, messages, or information, as by speech, visuals, signals, writing, or behavior. It is the meaningful exchange of information between two or more living creatures.



  Aren't we just lucky and to think there was a time when we couldnt express ourselves so much. Those who were deep in love found communication tasking but they pushed on by writing letters and doing what every it took to get their message of love across.
Then why do "we" ,who have more advantage with technology,vocabulary,music,taste and freedom of expression not take advantage of this gift of communciation and use it. There is so much "we" can do with great communication in our relationships.

Make It Stop!
If you’ve known each other for a while, you may assume that your partner has a pretty good idea of what you are thinking and what you need. However, your partner is not a mind reader. While your partner may have some idea, it is much healthier to directly express your needs to avoid any confusion.

Each of us is a little different in how we best receive information. Some people might respond better to sight, sound, or touch. Your partner’s responses may be different from yours. For a relationship to work well, each person has to be receptive to sending and receiving nonverbal cues. Learning to understand this “body language” can help you better understand what your partner is trying to say.

 Sending the right body language is important. you could be sending  mixed messages. saying one thing and yet doing the other. You need to know how to give the right body language if you have to. one of the reasons couples argue, get frustrated and eventually tune each other out! is because their done trying to figure it. You should also know that active listening allows you to focus on what the other person is saying instead of considering what you are planning on saying next.

During or after a big fight you might try to talk, note that the fightfinger-pointing,Taking things personally,finding fault and needing to have the last word just doesnt work. Getting angry and shouting above your voice doesn't solve anything. So before you start, create a peaceful environment and set up the guidelines for communication to ensure smooth, respectful and authentic communication and listen to what you two have to say. admitting when you wrong is a great start. Avoid interrupting,finishing sentences and forgetting to pause. communciation is a two way street.