Done with the Ex,no more sex.

Dear Posh bloggers,
A New year is 3days away and its time to start making those new year resolutions.
Someone once said, Sex is supposed to be that moment in time when everything in the world disappears and it's just you and your partner, delving into a blissful utopia that is unmatched by anything else, and I agree. My best friend recently hooked up with her ex and had hot passionate sex repeatedly for months without end. They knew it was just physical but so many times they tried to make it more than it was. I think sex with the ex is best avoided. So big and yet so small is this world and there is every chance that you might bump into an ex. In cases were people meet the ex[not yet forgotten] at a party ,there is a chance they might just end up in bed and  after the moaning and groaning,Some regret it and some think it’s a chance to start again,while others tell themselves that it’s just sex and a one night. After sex, we blame it on some random cocktail of chemicals that our brains released but it's only a matter of time until she develops feelings again if sex is repeated after that one night. If it’s going to be about sex, it should be stated. The highest a woman will say is No but the thought will linger. [Laying the ground rules] When you tell your ex that you are only interested in a purely sexual relationship, she might pretend to agree [we are great actors].If giving the slightest hope that there is a change of more than sex, we secretly start to manipulate because we can. so If it’s purely sex don’t get all chatty about old times in bed or making those whiny phone calls that say i care. If you want to be part of something great {A RELATIONSHIP} then you have to work at it. You can’t start by having sex with you ex. Relationship brings about productive in the sense that, if you’re in a form of relationship where is all about sex and nothing else then ask yourself  now what you’re doing there. Some of the disadvantages of been in a sex only relationship can be sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies and fatherhood that you clearly not prepared for and above all a chance to meet someone else. Time is the best healer when it comes to the ex.