Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Mending and bonding



It’s a couple of hours to the start of a brand new year ,we all have made mistakes, we crossed the line at some point and we called it ‘’wrong’’ but have you admitted being wrong? Did you apologized like u meant it? Did you say sorry like you could imagine he or she had a point? If you haven’t, please do. You owe it to yourself. Today is another fantastic opportunity to bond and apologise to those you have wronged.  Spending the day with your loved ones has the potential to solidify your bond. What ways can we bond?
Cooking is a bonding weapon in relationships,especially this season with the family members all gather together. family members can contribute both their skills and any resources to help turn it into a feast. By cooking together, work can be delegate.You assign each person to be responsible for a different task, recipe, or course. It’s so much fun
Decision making is made together so as to move forward in every relationship. This season is a time to reminisce together over the past year and make decisions that are needed. Together finding solutions is made much easier.
Another way of bonding is by playing board games. Set up a major board games night along with lots of delicious nibbles and drinks. Have games suited to all ages so that everyone can join in the fun. It helps to assign a coordinator for such an event and You throw in prizes to make it more fun
During this season a lot of families meet at a certain point called a Family Home. You could also introduce Playing physical games such as foosball, volley ball, Wii sports, ping pong or table tennis etc. By doing this everyone is able to participate.
Bonding while watching movies together or even creating something like a concert or a Broadway show in the living room is all you need. Choosing really good DVD material to watch, gets everyone off the usual pulp on TV on New Year's Eve and provides a focal point for the whole family to sit down together and watch through an entire show. Supply nibbles and drinks as usual, and provide distractions for the little ones.
There is a saying that goes >A family that prays together stays together. Spiritually way of bonding.
Finally make these moments last for a life time by doing videos or taking pictures. It will not only serve as a New Year's keepsake, but you can look back on them together the following year to see how much you have changed.

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