Relationships: First date 1

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Do your best work by challenging the way you did things yesterday. - See more at: http://www.robinsharma.com/blog/02/do-your-best-work/#sthash.AsxJws9e.dpuf

How do i become my best at work?First become part of the solution instead of creating more problems. next step is to challeng yourself. Even if you find yourself in a job that wasnt on the plan A after graduation make a plan B, pratice new skills and be virtuoso. remember no knowledege goes to waste. Finally,delive more value than anyone could ever except from you. become an inspirations to others.

Do your best work by challenging the way you did things yesterday. - See more at: http://www.robinsharma.com/blog/02/do-your-best-work/#sthash.AsxJws9e.dpuf

One of the most interesting conversations I had on a first date was about Art,wood and creepy animals. at first I thought it was disgusting but as the conversation continued i began to understand why my date thought it was fascinating. Our conversation was extremely interesting, and showed us that we can talk about different opinions on our first date.
You would agree with me that some people always seem to fail miserably at making a great first impression no matter how hard they try. First dates,no matter how many times we do it,we are still nervous. Impressing a date takes more than just words.The way you behave and treat the person you’re with on a date can play a big part too.

GUYS especially
#When planing a first date try Picking a date spot that both of you would like and make sure you arrive on time. there is tendecy to goof up or slip because there is alot of pressure to impress. after the slip just simply laugh it off and rise again.
#Generous with compliments.Impress her with your attention to detail if you ask her about her clothes (which she likely took an hour to pick out).And Unless your date leans in or tries to get closer to you, avoid reaching out and touching them unnecessarily.
#Be positive when you meet your date and use positive words during the date. Look around the restaurant and tell your date what you like about the place, or tell your date how glad you are to spend time with them. When you see the positive side in everything around you, your optimism will make you seem more attractive.

WHILE TALKING
It's all about letting the conversation flow natturally and you just might have the most memorable Story.
#Gestures are a great way to show your excitement in a conversation. dont assume you’re having an interesting conversation but your date may feel otherwise. If your date seems to be looking around the room, shuffling their feet, staring blankly at you or in any way distracted, talk about something else, or wrap your statement up quickly and discreetly, laugh awkwardly and use the time tested line, “I’m talking too much… why don’t you tell me something.
#Disagree respectfully. In every conversation, there are bound to be differences in opinions. Express your view lightheartedly and try to steer the conversation in another direction if its giving the code red.
#I think its best that during the conversation you should avoid asking about their past relationships or their future plans. Both of you aren’t dating yet.
#When a person reveals too much too soon, it can give a false sense of intimacy.Getting to know someone new is like peeling an onion one thin layer at the time. It’s a slow and safe process. But some people, overeager to get into deep and meaningful conversation, go too far too fast. They ask personal or sensitive questions that put the other person on the defensive. Should the relationship evolve, there will be plenty of time to get into weighty topics. For now, take it easy
#End the date memorably is just as important as the first few minutes of the day. leave your date thinking fondly of you.

Do your best work by challenging the way you did things yesterday.
Do your best work by allowing your passion to see the light of day.
Do your best work by becoming part of the solution versus growing the problem.
Do your best work by expecting nothing less than you playing at world-class.
Do your best work by giving away the credit (especially when you crave it)
Do your best work by practicing your skills so you become a virtuoso.
Do your best work by releasing excuses and doing important things.
Do your best work by getting up when you’ve been knocked down.
Do your best work by keeping your promises; to others and to yourself.
Do your best work by showing integrity.
Do your best work by delivering more value than anyone could ever expect from you.
Do your best work by making time to refill your well.
Do your best work by having a strong foundation at home.
Do your best work by becoming as fit as a pro athlete.
Do your best work by doing work that makes a difference and inspires others to do the same.

Do your best work by challenging the way you did things yesterday.
Do your best work by allowing your passion to see the light of day.
Do your best work by becoming part of the solution versus growing the problem.
Do your best work by expecting nothing less than you playing at world-class.
Do your best work by giving away the credit (especially when you crave it)
Do your best work by practicing your skills so you become a virtuoso.
Do your best work by releasing excuses and doing important things.
Do your best work by getting up when you’ve been knocked down.
Do your best work by keeping your promises; to others and to yourself.
Do your best work by showing integrity.
Do your best work by delivering more value than anyone could ever expect from you.
Do your best work by making time to refill your well.
Do your best work by having a strong foundation at home.
Do your best work by becoming as fit as a pro athlete.
Do your best work by doing work that makes a difference and inspires others to do the same.

Do your best work by challenging the way you did things yesterday.
Do your best work by allowing your passion to see the light of day.
Do your best work by becoming part of the solution versus growing the problem.
Do your best work by expecting nothing less than you playing at world-class.
Do your best work by giving away the credit (especially when you crave it)
Do your best work by practicing your skills so you become a virtuoso.
Do your best work by releasing excuses and doing important things.
Do your best work by getting up when you’ve been knocked down.
Do your best work by keeping your promises; to others and to yourself.
Do your best work by showing integrity.
Do your best work by delivering more value than anyone could ever expect from you.
Do your best work by making time to refill your well.
Do your best work by having a strong foundation at home.
Do your best work by becoming as fit as a pro athlete.
Do your best work by doing work that makes a difference and inspires others to do the same.

As Chuck Palahniuk once said: “The goal isn’t to live forever. The goal is to create something that will.”
- See more at: http://www.robinsharma.com/blog/02/do-your-best-work/#sthash.AsxJws9e.dpufHow do i become the best at work?First be part of the solution and not the problem, next is to chanllege yourself , Yes plan A didnt work, life sucks..stop beating youself and make a plan B and that dont work either make a plan CDEFGHIJ till you get to Z. If that dont work move to numbers. I always tell my students "You fall to rise again". Pratice new skills and what ever you involved in try to improve yourself. No knowledge is wasted. Finally show intergrity and deliver more value than anyone could ever have expect. Be the best because you love you.

Do your best work by challenging the way you did things yesterday.
Do your best work by allowing your passion to see the light of day.
Do your best work by becoming part of the solution versus growing the problem.
Do your best work by expecting nothing less than you playing at world-class.
Do your best work by giving away the credit (especially when you crave it)
Do your best work by practicing your skills so you become a virtuoso.
Do your best work by releasing excuses and doing important things.
Do your best work by getting up when you’ve been knocked down.
Do your best work by keeping your promises; to others and to yourself.
Do your best work by showing integrity.
Do your best work by delivering more value than anyone could ever expect from you.
Do your best work by making time to refill your well.
Do your best work by having a strong foundation at home.
Do your best work by becoming as fit as a pro athlete.
Do your best work by doing work that makes a difference and inspires others to do the same.

Relationships

Monday, December 2, 2013

First date 1

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