. The political equilibrium of dating

Compromising is about giving something up in order to gain something greater. I always say relationship is a two way street, don’t be in a relationship if you’re going to act single, It’s a WE thing. Compromising is about balance, were one person complements the other. It is all about politics. How? In relationships we negotiate and by negotiating we are compromising.

Defining and finding the best possible compromise is important in every relationship. The solution to when we have arguments is to compromise. It is a concept of finding agreements through COMMUNICATION and through a mutual ACCEPTANCE of terms.  You need to understand that in order to comprise, you have to accept and in order to accept, you need to agree.  In the negative connotation, compromise may be regarded as a dictatorship regime and a surrender of objectives and principles. No doubt,We fall in love with the manifestos. Manifestos are those lying lines you spit when you first meet that could have been avoided. In relationships there has to be an understanding, a meeting point...The equilibrium.

In economics your taught that the an equilibrium is where demand meets supply. You can’t always be right in a relationship, there comes a time when you have to surrender and when your partner does surrender, try not to take advantage or capitalize on it.  The remember we are one.