Your partner's family...for many young people in relationships, families remain an important source of emotional, if not financial support during their years in the university.
 Some people find dealing with their partners family difficult or frustrating. It can help to take a steps back and think about the parents good intentions because believe it or not families many offer well intentioned advise about your relationships or your partner. It's important that the two of you discuss and agree on how you want to respond to differing family values and support one another in the face of what can be very Intense "suggestions"from the family.  
 Try talking things out, try getting your partner and family to relation, let them see what you see and fall in love as well. It's not going to take a lot of energy and time,its not going to be easy but with determination and you both knowing what you want, who knows there might be a silver lining in the end.