Tuesday, October 1, 2013

NAGGING...Make it Stop

what is nagging? Is it avoiding questions?asking the same questions you already have answers to?singing you deserve better but yet never leave? Crying for change when you very well know it's not going to come? 
Nagging means different things to different people. What is nagging to you? 
  Basically nagging is wrong approach and bad communication. guys should understand that being called a nag is never easy to take, and can cause you to question and doubt yourself. 
It’s not that men don’t make requests of the women who are nearest and dearest to them, it’s that the behavior is labeled differently depending on who is doing the requesting.
  You see that the problem here, really lies within the communication channel. The two of you might be doing a lot of talking, but that doesn't necessarily mean you're getting the message across the right way — or at all, for that matter.
   If your she is nagging you, she probably has something to tell you and you're not listening, so she's going to keep on telling you until you do. Don't feel bad about the listening part; I'll bet that you're not listening because she's not approaching you the right way.
 Stop the blaming game! ). It’s not that men don’t make requests of the women who are nearest and dearest to them, it’s that the behavior is labeled differently depending on who is doing the requesting.

 

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