prisoners of love and hope

Dear posh bloggers,

  It’s the perfect time to create and fulfil a dream for your loved one but first you must hear about their dreams, what they love, what they dream about, what they'd like to learn and places they would like to go. Let them talk freely and then take down a few down help create those dreams. Like I always say spoiling is a primary relationship component and it should be done regularly and reciprocated by both parties.

For most women, valentine day is really a big deal, so whatever you have planned for February 14th this year, be sure to make it memorable. It doesn’t have to cost a fortune or be especially elaborate, but making her feel special is essential. Its not how much a card cost,is the thought behind it and the words that bind it. so when getting you woman a card add a note about how much you love her,how much she means to you, and any other positive feelings you have{ no its not chessy}.The personal part is what is romantic to her ,not how much lace is on the card or how much you spent on it. valentines day should be seen as a fun and a day to be thankful for the ones we love. valentines day is about the ability to express our love in words and more.

Wars of valetine: If your not anti-valentine and your not single i see no reason why you shouldnt appericate the ones you love everyday, especially on valentines day. Too many of us tend to get in front of the computer late at night for gaming, chatting or other online stuff. For this one night, leave the computer off ,turn off you blackberry and S4's and focus on your partners by giving each other undivided attention.

Marriage doesnt mean boring, it means you get to do things together with out rules. Spice it up by doing scavenger hunt games. Ask him/her to answer riddles to find the clues to items that you placed somewhere around town. The last item should give instructions that lead to your Valentine’s Day activities. You could also make a dinner reservation somewhere fancy[restaurant that you enjoyed when you first met] and dress up in your finest. Dressing up always makes the occasion feel extra special. your partner would love that you put thought and planning into making a reservation. hint your partner{woman}so she can get her self ready for a wild night. If you really cant go out then have candlelight dinner for two at home, give your spouse a massage and watch a romantic movie.

For the husbands, we all know your out making the bacon but this day was created for you and her to ball. A good start would be to have 11 roses delivered to your wife, and then give her a 12th yourself while reading her a love poem and the rest is up to you. finish up with a grand surprise[anticipation is only half the fun of a romantic surprise].

For the wives,Focus on the things you love about your husband and not their shortcomings. make a special “14 Reasons I Love You” Valentine’s Day breakfast for your sweetheart. On his/her plate, leave a letter or card listing 14 reasons that you love your spouse or you could show up at your husband’s office before lunch. Call him from the parking lot and tell him you are going to take him for a lunch rendezvous and that you will be waiting for him whenever he can take a break. Wear a nice outfit and tell him you have something sexy on underneath for when he gets home. Take him to a nice place for lunch and back to the office. Give him some great kisses telling him how glad you are to be married to him, and tell him you will be waiting for him when he gets home

For parents, making valentines with your kids is as sweet as it gets. Kids arent left out on valentines day because they get to hang out with friends and family. at school they get to cut and color with friends while at home they get to hang out with fam and enjoy as much chocolate as they want. Order food from a take-out restaurant and have a picnic for all the Valentines in your family on your living room floor. The kids look forward to this season because of all chocolates and candies every year. As a kid my folks tried to change it, but i and my brother wouldn’t for the life of us allow it and hence it became a tradition. kids see the value of family and a loving marriage.”

Everyday is worth celebrating and where there is time there is hope. Humans are prisoners of love and hope. I say if you love someone and you’ve got the time, money and freedom, stretch your Valentine’s Day into a Valentine’s weekend away at a romantic resort far away. 

Two days away....happy valentine.