Sunday, September 29, 2013
Search for closure
How do you close a chapter in a relationship? The search for closure..many times we never get the opportunity to get answers to questions that take us a step closer to closure.. for the strong, how do you just move on without knowing what went wrong. I know for a fact that there is no strong muscle in a broken heart. Are we just trying to avoid the simple truth cause it might hurt or really just loving yourself more to know that the best thing is to pick back the pieces of your heart and glue it back. How long it takes to heal is really up to you..
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How do u get the girl you want to want you back and how do you keep ur calm even when you know your really like d girl?
ReplyDeleteMen are hunters and women prey. It's a known fact that guys are usually attracted to girls that they find tough to get. Slow and steady wins the race. We all know that love doesn't always come easy, sometimes we love those who don't love us back and at the same time have people that love us that we don't love right back. Life isn't fair but it has been proved that with time all things fall into place. Just keep steady with her and keep loving her right. She will eventually come around. THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND. If the early stages, compliment her. Stand out by making comments about her personality for instants you like her style or the way she's focused on getting things done right. Note that over complimenting her appearance like everyone else,may lead her into thinking your there for sex or you just like the last guy. Secondly, be her friend but no to close to the friend zone. Offer to hold out her hand when she's stepping on an uneven surface, comfort her, just be a gentle man. Get to know her more, a woman will only be intimate with a man she knows,trust and cares about. Find out what you both like to do and use that to you advantage. A good conversation always keeps things going. The need to spend more time with you slowly creeps in. Note that making her laugh and having sure a great time always does the trick. And finally I wish you the best.. remember be patient. Girls hate being forced into something.
ReplyDeleteWow. D@ all I cn say. Very helpful
DeleteThank You..
ReplyDeleteHow do I close a relationship? I just let it burn out and always keep the door open. I let the girl (in this case) always feel that they are the one that walked away or called it quits. Once you stop the everyday intimacy ( phone calls, gifts, texts, sex,etc) they usually get the message.....blame it on your job, work schedule or nothing at all. Just change up the pace of your relationship!
ReplyDeleteWhy all that? Why not just come out straight and say it.. I don't think closure can come from denial..avoiding is not answering the question..what the guy is doing is making her wonder and making it even harder for her to move on..yes I understand that while breaking it off, she might try to persuade you to stay and try again that's only she loves you and she believes in u...if u have to break up, please give a concrete reason and not a made up one that was formulated in your head. In the long run she will thank you..no one said it was going to be easy.
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